BeMethod
Vs. Victim Consciousness
What is Victim Consciousness?
In
today’s busy world, there are an increasing number of people who are coming
forward admitting to having a negative image of themselves – low self-esteem. It
is THE secret disease (dis-ease) of society, it is common and unless dealt
with, can be seriously disabling.
From
the perspective of a victim, the common thread of victim consciousness is that
the “sufferer” has had something happen to them – that something or somebody
did something and it makes the “victim” feel bad.
In
today’s modern thinking where we take responsibility for ourselves, where we
are empowered; victimhood is extremely disempowering because it means that the
sufferer or victim has no power – “it is not my fault” - it happened to them
and there is someone to blame. ….. worryingly this is also encouraging the blame
culture, but perhaps more importantly to a persons Wellbeing, it is energetically
a denial of responsibility.
Victim
consciousness and blame, as a form of disempowerment is about not taking
responsibility for the victim’s contribution to the event that occurred. These feelings
are found in people with fractured self esteem – but don’t worry, that just
about includes the majority of us! If this irks a little as you read this,
remember that emotional discomfort is an indication that something within you has
to be dealt with in order for you to be a happier and more fulfilled person.
The
underlying problem with victim consciousness is that we have become familiar
with these feelings. We become comfortable with the hurt, which is why it known
as “familiar pain”. In fact, our protestations and denials of victimhood (when
we feel ok) are fairly indicative that we are so familiar and comfortable with
these feelings that it is a strong signal that we are actually addicted to
them.
Familiarity creates comfort and also a habit,
however bad or negative it becomes - it is a place of comfort.
Without
that feeling of victimhood and associated pain our core negative belief system feels
empty and attracts the situation / a person into our life that will recreate
the feeling. Like a pied piper, the tune will play and we will subconsciously enact
the dance to attract and bring about a situation to validate and re-enforce the
feelings that we are, indeed victims. This is how behavioural patterns are
established.
The
Battle Lines Are Drawn
Battling victim consciousness requires you to step
back for a moment and avoid being drawn into the drama of victimhood. Victim
land is only a creation of our own familiar place and is a place created many
years ago in childhood. Basically, I am asking you to not judge yourself as
there is nothing wrong, but just to carry on reading……
Victimland exists in our subconscious; it is a place
that we created when we were growing up at a time when we were egocentric –
that the world revolved us. And because the world revolved around us, we became
responsible for everything in our lives….
Thus we took responsibility on a subconscious level
for every negative that occurred in our field of influence; our parents
arguing, separating, divorcing… the list is quite endless, and can include
death of someone we knew. The consequences of taking on this burden were that
it validated our negative self worth, and fundamentally re-enforced the core
limiting belief of; “I am not enough”. I call this the “Not Good Factor” or
“NGE”.
(Ironically, as adults we have to relearn that as
creators of our life, we have infinite control of our life – a bit like being
egocentric again – but this time around with heartcentered awareness – hopefully!)
Psychology as a profession is aware of our core
negative and limiting beliefs but on an energetic level, the profession may not
quite be so aware of the enormous impact the NGE energy factor has on an
individual.
Unless dealt with the NGE will attract situations and
people throughout life that will validate our negative feeling of self worth.
Whether you believe in the Laws of Attraction or not, what goes around – comes around.
The NGE factor and its energetic legacy is why we
find ourselves in victim consciousness and why we play out patterns in our life
that validate our negative worth.
A New Perspective - Clarity
So now as an adult we can see this victimland for
what it truly is; a subconscious throwback to our early formative years - a
“virus” in our own programming system. No fault – no blame – it is just the way
it is.
Victimland is not a real place, nor is it a
necessity in our adult lives, in fact it is a hindrance to our growth and our
happiness. However in seeking a positive note, victimhood in individuals shows
that healing is required.
So you need to remember when things are tough and
those old thought patterns surface, they are not yours but your old
programming; The feelings may seem real, but victim consciousness is only the
grooves of a worn out record that have been buried deep in our subconscious playing
an old out of date tune, to draw us in to a childhood drama, a nursery rhyme
from our past.
Even if you do not believe in energy or the Laws of
Attraction, when familiar situations occur that remind us of our past, they
will triggers our NGE and the “tune” plays, and we dance helplessly to the
rhythm of the past.
In effect we act out our childhood drama in our
adult body!
The Solution
So as an adult we have the means to identify with
victim consciousness and understand that it is only a pattern from our past. This
is only the first part of your empowerment process.
Fortunately,
once recognised for what it really is, you can easily dispel victim
consciousness and begin living your life free from the past negative limiting
thoughts that hold you back. And it is pretty easy, too!
If
you want to realise your full potential, be free of the past negatives that
have held you back, BeMethod will empower you to change your life. By releasing
the energy that powers the NGE factor you will allow yourself what you truly
deserve; to live your life in the power of the present.
You
will see yourself in a positive light; you will take life in its stride. You
will understand that life’s obstacles are, in fact, learning experiences. You
will have greater appreciation of yourself, a healthier outlook with positive
relationships, and understand that positivity attracts positive situations.
You
will feel more empowered, more fulfilled as you change the way you think,
making the difference as you develop a positive understanding of yourself.
Sounds
amazing? Be the creator of your life…
Try
it and see.
BeMethod
The BeMethod enhances the body’s natural ability to self heal
bringing the body back into balance and greater Wellbeing.
The BeMethod is a non-invasive process of recovery from
ailments, both physical and mental, using the body’s natural healing processes
but amplifying them exponentially. Whilst on the surface the recovery process
is speeded up and is visible, the deeper effect on the psyche or spirit is also
quite considerable bringing your body mind and spirit back into balance,
allowing you to just Be and live in the present.
